By Jennifer Kent on May 22, 2025
Some people let life’s challenges slow them down. Others use them as fuel. Abelina Durham is the latter. As a mother, entrepreneur, and fighter against endometriosis, she embodies strength in every sense and has turned her struggles into motivation. Her business, The Original Wife, isn’t just about cleaning, cooking, and organizing – it’s about restoring peace to homes and showing her children that resilience can turn hardship into success.
The name The Original Wife was inspired by Abelina’s children. They saw how their mother embraced traditional values – cooking from scratch, maintaining a well-run home, and caring for her family – and wanted the business to reflect that.
For Abelina, being the original wife isn’t about outdated roles – it’s about honoring the skills and dedication that create a warm, organized, and welcoming home. Her business provides these same values to clients, helping them bring balance and order to their lives.
Abelina’s upbringing played a huge role in shaping her approach to work and family. Growing up in a military household, she was taught discipline, efficiency, and resourcefulness. Her grandmother instilled the importance of making things from scratch and fixing rather than replacing, values that became the backbone of The Original Wife. But it was her mother who inspired Abelina to want more in life – to dream bigger, push harder, and create something meaningful for herself and her children.
Her services go beyond standard housekeeping – they’re about creating a stress-free environment for her clients. She and her team offer:
For busy professionals and families, this service isn’t just a convenience – it’s a game-changer. Regular clients can take advantage of customized package deals, while one-time clients benefit from exceptional service whenever needed.
Abelina lives with endometriosis, a chronic condition that affects multiple organs and causes severe pain. Every day is a battle, but instead of letting it hold her back, she uses it as motivation. Her goal is clear: build a business that provides for her children, ensuring they have the education and opportunities they deserve.
Even on difficult days, the business never falters. Her family is always ready to step in, ensuring clients continue to receive the best service. Abelina personally attends the first meeting with every client, taking detailed notes to ensure their needs are met. She then assigns a dedicated team member who will consistently provide the same high-quality service.
Her illness has given her a superpower – unwavering determination. Knowing that her children may face similar health challenges has made her even more driven to create a strong foundation for them.
Family is at the heart of everything Abelina does. Her children – Mario, Jamie, and Adelina – are deeply involved in the business.
Even Abelina’s romantic partner plays a behind-the-scenes role, assisting with logistics and planning. While he may not be on the payroll, his support is invaluable.
Abelina’s extended family, including her sisters and cousins, are dedicated to providing exceptional domestic services. Their deep familial connections ensure a level of trust, cohesion, and mutual support that goes beyond a typical team. This shared bond not only fosters a warm and welcoming environment for clients but also guarantees a united and harmonious approach to their work. With family members working side by side, clients can expect a unique blend of professionalism and heartfelt care that sets Abelina’s services apart.
This isn’t just a business – it’s a family legacy in the making. Abelina’s children plan to help grow it while they pursue careers as a doctor and a lawyer, ensuring financial stability while they achieve their dreams.
In a fast-paced city like Los Angeles, personal service is rare. Many cleaning companies send different staff members each time, but The Original Wife offers a unique approach:
This level of dedication sets The Original Wife apart from the competition.
Abelina and her daughters believe in paying it forward. They often volunteer their services, cleaning homes for those in need. Additionally, if a long-time client falls on hard times, they continue providing help, ensuring no one is left struggling. For Abelina, this business is about more than just income – it’s about making a difference.
Abelina’s vision is clear: to grow The Original Wife into a thriving business that supports her family while providing top-tier services to clients. Her children will continue managing it as they pursue their careers, ensuring its longevity. Abelina aims to teach her children the value of hard work, and to inspire others facing their own struggles.
Endometriosis may make each day a challenge, but it has also given Abelina an unstoppable drive. She refuses to let anything stand in her way – and her business reflects that same level of dedication. Her illness is not a setback – it’s the driving force behind her success.
For those looking for a service that feels more like family, The Original Wife is the answer. With a team that truly cares and a leader who proves that determination can overcome anything, this is more than a business – it’s a mission.
If you’re in Hollywood Hills, Studio City, or nearby areas, and need someone to bring organization and warmth into your home, Abelina and her team are ready to help.
To learn more, visit theOriginalWife.com and experience the difference of a service built on strength, tradition, and family.
Phone: (323) 386-1112
Email: Mrs.Durham@TheOriginalWife.com
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